Today is Officially – THANK AN Ex DAY!

Today is Officially – THANK AN Ex DAY!

THE MASH-UP: GOOD RELATIONSHIPS have EX-es TO THANK! This is going to be a short post so stay focused — . I used to say, “I’d be pissed if I “fix up” a man for some other sister to get him.” However, when I reflect on my own “brokenness” that brothers-of-yesterYears fixed/endured so I could … Continue reading »

THANKFUL… & Blog SUPERLATIVES.

THANKFUL… & Blog SUPERLATIVES.

MASH-UP: Thankful + You = Thankful for You. I know that no one has to read my blog. No one has to comment. Even my dearest friends and family have tons more critical actions items to do in their day. I never presume that what I write is so earth shattering that it will trump … Continue reading »

NO PLAN B

Do you know what your “thing” is? What is your Plan A that if you were doing it you would say, “There’s nothing else in the world I’d rather be doing”? NO PLAN B! My answer: see my tab marked David Abigail.

Part 3a: Separated for Increase (but I miss my boo)

Part 3a: Separated for Increase (but I miss my boo)

THE MASH-UP: Purposed Isolation = Better Individuals = Better Relationships Emotional distance in a relationship is a pain in the ass. It definitely doesn’t feel good. If one partner is disconnected while the other is all-in, then for that person the question “is it me?” becomes a dark cloud that just looms over head. I’m … Continue reading »

Indebted with No Option to Repay

Indebted with No Option to Repay

THE MASH-UP: Is the psychological phrase “I don’t like owing people” having an affect on our ability to accept GOD’s gift of salvation? We’ve all heard that phrase! However, if by some reason you’ve never encountered anyone that used that phrase, here’s one sure place you’ll find it… Find an impoverished neighborhood. If you happen … Continue reading »

Removing the Shackles of “Best Wishes”???

Removing the Shackles of “Best Wishes”???

The MASH-UP: Our best wishes for others (not to be confused with Good Intentions) can keep people from being their authentic self with us. I seldom describe myself as “judgmental.” I’m not perfect and as we all know ‘THOUGHTS turned to WORDS’ is a familiar process for me. Yet consciously I practice the art of … Continue reading »